So my mother has currently fallen out with me and won’t speak to me. Do you want to know why? Because I couldn’t go get her nails done with her because I had already invited the boyf round. Yep… thats it.
Yesterday I told her that James was downstairs. She said oh well I was going to say I’m getting my nails done, I said oh sorry, we can go tomorrow if you want, she said no, I need to go today, I said ok.
Then I was sat downstairs with the boyf. She comes in, doesn’t even look at us. James says hello, she ignores him, I said are you going shopping going shopping as well? she ignores me then just leaves. She comes back in the same mood.
Whenever she is like this I just stay in my room til she grows up a bit, because believe or not this happens more than you would think. My mother, a 60 year old woman, goes a strop all the time but this time is just ridiculous.
I’d spend the entire night before with her, she could of mentioned that she wanted to get her nails done, I went to tell her something in the morning, she could of told me then. No she only mentions something when I have already made other plans. She only tells me 5 minutes before she wants to go. If she had told me before 30 seconds before she wants to go I would of told James not to come.
I am a young woman, maybe just maybe I might have made other plans. I don’t have a huge social life, but if I do try and make plans for the weekend and now I’m being ‘punished’ for it.
I think its crazy. She definitely needs to grow up and maybe act like, I don’t know the mother in this relationship.
Normally I do just sit here and wait for her to stop sulking but yesterday I did so much for her and my dad. I booked two lots of cinema tickets, I checked them into their flights and printed there boarding passes off, I sent some emails for them, filled my dads iPod. I did all this and I’m in my room writing this because apparently I’m still a horrible person…
Oh I still haven ‘t said the best bit. Me and my mother are supposed to be going to the cinema today to go see the new mission impossible. It starts at 3.45, its 12.40 and still she hasn’t spoke to me so this is going to be fun.
I don’t even care I’m just going to sit in here til she comes in and says something because I am not apologising I haven’t done anything wrong!
Does anyone think I have done anything wrong, because if you do please tell me what it is because I would love to know what I am supposed to be feeling guilty over…. because to me its just very very VERY petty!